As discussed in the previous article there seems to be an absence when it comes to choice for lesbians looking for a partner. Maybe this is why some lesbians take it upon themselves to gather ‘new recruits’ to the team. You guessed it I’m talking about those lesbians who fall for straight girls!
Now I’m sure at some point most lesbians have had a ‘straight girl crush’, you know when you, meet a girl who is undeniably straight and un-turn-able but you can’t help but google over her and go a bit silly and giggly when she talks to you, it’s just the same as straight women who wish to high heaven that the gay man they’re talking to was straight. But then come the lesbians (no names but you know who you are lol) who seem to have a major thing for the straight girl. One straight girl is acceptable but has it become a sport?
For some I suppose it could be the allure that she has never slept with a girl before and therefore is untainted by the lesbian community (meant in the nicest way possible ladies) and that if you were successful in your endeavour she will think it is the most fantastic thing she has ever experienced, like giving a child sweets for the first time in their life. For others it could be the chase in that this girl identifies herself as straight and that if you were to turn her subconsciously it will boost your ego because you were the one to ‘show her the ways’. Or could it just be a preference thing, in that some lesbians don’t like the ‘lesbian look’ and the femininity of straight girls is just that much more appealing to them?
Then there is the question of can this behaviour be imposed on any straight girl crush or are we looking at a particular breed of straight girl? Does this only work on those girls that you just know are teetering on the edge of their sexuality and are possibly confused and need a little guidance or a helping hand or can we seduce any straight girl into bed if we use our charm correctly?
Most women unlike men are more open and experimental with their sexuality anyway, this is a proven fact but just how impressionable are they? Can we go to a straight club walk up to the hottest girl in the room and eventually take her home or do we need to get to know a girl and work out whether she might possibly be interested in experimenting or begin to plant the idea of girl on girl action into her head before we can introduce the idea of acting on it? From what I’ve seen so far it is a lengthy process and at the risk of making myself sound rather promiscuous I’m not sure I’d be prepared to put in a year’s worth of ground work unless this was the girl I planned to spend the rest of my life with and even in saying that I’m not sure I would have that much knowledge unless I was already in a relationship with that person.
So maybe there are two types of lesbian that practice this type of behaviour; the ones for whom it is a sport to see if they can ‘turn’ the straight girl which consists of very little time, a lot of chase and a short-term outcome and those for whom straight girls are just a preference, a heart’s desire and they can’t help but fall in love with them before anything has really begun and they will put in the lengthy ground work because they are actually in it for the long-haul.
To those girls who are in it for the long-haul I salute you, that is a lot of time and effort you are putting in to something that may never happen and yet you keep going because that’s what your heart tells you to do and to those for whom it is a sport I would think that most single lesbians would salute you for the fresh meat!
I’m actually going to dedicate this article to my good friend Sian who will one day find the straight girl that is worth putting in the ground work for. :)